Friday, December 21, 2012

Phuket Dec 2012

I have been away for a while now, because I was on a vacation.

Phang Nga Bay, Phuket

Destination - Phuket
Duration - 10 days
Activities - I'll need a while a to put everything down in words, a travelogue is in process, though I doubt if i'll
                 to see it to the finish line and of course loads of pictures, which need to be sorted out.

What now? - Now that the vacation is over, I am feeling blue. This is the crazy thing about vacations, before     they begin, U can't wait for them to start and once they do, u just don't want them to get over.

I think the only way to get over a vacation is by planning another one.

So this is what is on the cards - work, party, write the travelogue, plan a new trip and of course work on some of the personal projects that are pending.

Sunday, December 2, 2012

Happy December

December
I stopped midway in the mad rush
as the realization struck that
It's December again.

I
took a deep breath,
welcoming the Winters,
letting the chill seep in
letting the calm set in.

For 
the first time in so many weeks
I stopped feeling like a string
tense, taut, ready to snap.

love December,
it reminds me that a year has gone by
that time has been lost
But
it also fills me with hope
that there's another year waiting just around the corner.

Waiting
with so many days, so many months
to be filled with
all that is yet to be done.
It's the time
of the year to take a break.

To 
Hibernate,
Rejuvenate
to 
Begin again.

It's 
the time to let go what is gone,
to dream and hope for what is to come,
with Christmas and snow
just around the corner
it's the time
to spread joy
and to let cheer take over
and let the soul heal.

Happy December


(P.S. - I wish there was a movie titled 'happy December' showing the essence of December, and like every year I wish I would get to see and enjoy a white December and a merry Christmas)

Friday, November 23, 2012

Small treats

This post is inspired by this lovely post by my blogger friend Relyn http://comesitbymyfire.blogspot.in/2012/11/small-treats.html on her blog 'Come sit by my fire'

Small Treats, those tiny little things that, can brighten an otherwise dull, crazy or bad day in just a moment. The magical little things that make up magical little moments, which make life vibrant and beautiful.

My Small Treats
 include 
Surprises, getting them and giving them * getting flowers * Daisies * Sunsets * Teddy Bears * watching my gold wish swimming in it's bowl at night * walking on the cold damp grass * enjoying a walk in the cool breeze on a silent night * star gazing * dancing * listening to music with lights dulled and letting it take me on a high * watching one of my fav movies at home on a Saturday night with bowl of soup, burger and ice cream tub * warm nice smelling bubble bath with music in the back ground * talking to friends * writing letters * making personalized gifts * crafts * painting shirts * watching children play * a warm glass of milk with ginger bread * watching the first snow of the season sitting on the porch * reading a nice book tucked up in my quilt on a winter night * dreaming about finding love and spending a lifetime being in love * spa * helping someone in need * the look on the face of an elderly after spending some time with them * hugging someone when they are feeling low * long drive in the country at night with music and wine * cooking * baking cakes and cookies * desserts * the feeling after doing my one good deed for the day * getting hugged and kissed by mom while I'm still in bed * sharing a casual laughing moment with dad * feeling of being taken care off* pillow fights * shoes * a well fitted party dress * sitting in a bar with a drink and music * lying on the grass under the sun on a cold winter's day * the smell of autumn * the spirit of festive season * singing * sitting in a coffee shop on a rainy day with a warm mug of coffee while I write a few lines * rich creamy hot chocolate * painting * the smell of sunday mornings * dreamless peaceful sleep * memories * good times with friends * eating roasted marsh mallows * halloween parties * saying thank you * picnics * travelling * open air candle light dinners * reading poetry *

all that I can remember at the moment, but it's just the tip of the ice-berg. What are your small treats?

Thursday, November 15, 2012

I Believe...

The way u treat people describes your character.
 So if u want to know what people feel about u, look back and see how u treated them.
 U treat someone well, they feel good about u, u treat someone like shit, they feel crappy about u. 
Perception is relative. 

So be careful about the way u treat people.

Sunday, November 11, 2012

Musing

Been a while,
 since I have done some writing, 
apart from maybe a few lines,
 bits and pieces here and there, not much.

I was wondering why?
 because writing gives me joy, 
joy because it is an instrument through which I communicate
  not just with people around me, 
but also with myself. 

most of the times
I express thoughts better while writing than speaking
In fact
as I begin writing about them
my thoughts start getting clearer
problems start making sense
I understand myself better
And
solutions start coming to me
And I end up in a better shape
then when I began.

Then why haven't I written in such a long time
actually
why haven't I been able to write?

The answer,
I guess is that I write,
when my conscious and unconscious mind communicate with each other


The conscious mind,
 struggling with it endless queries and confusions
While
The unconscious mind
tries to help it look at things
with a clearer perspective
in the process
clearing the clutter,
making sense out of the chaos.

I have not been able to write
because
I have not been at peace
I have been galloping, worrying, chasing
while 
the unconscious mind 
has been trying
to tell me 
to 
slow down
calm down
quit chasing
to accept what I have heard
but 
I am refusing to acknowledge.

That
what has to happen shall happen
that for everything
under the sun, there is a season and reason
and 
that 
I need to only do what I can
do what I want to
do what I feel is right
and 
forget about the rest.
no amount of 
chasing
wanting
worrying
is going to make a difference.

I am not writing
because
I am refusing to listen to the dialogue
happening within.

(P.S - at the end of this post of course I will start the process of trying to listen)




Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Randomness

Many a times I meet people to whom, silent empathy is all I can offer, that is when my heart grows heavy
 wishing, that silent empathy could be of any help. 
With that empathy comes Silent gratitude, for what I have. 
At these times I realize, that, It is such a beautiful life that I have, and such a mess that I have turned it into. 
And
I wish I was a better person.
And
I strive to make myself a better person, than I am.

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Experience Melbourne

'The most important lesson that u learn from travelling is, To Begin. Travelling teaches u, that, unless u take that first step which takes you down the road, ideas just remain ideas, dreams just remain dreams.It's After the first step, when the journey begins, that u realize the road just goes on, all u have to do is begin, and the treasure that life has to offer is waiting to engulf you at every step you take.'



And, so, it was exasperating for the traveler within me, when I could not decide how to begin writing this post. It was not the first time that I was writing about travel or a travel destinations, but I was struggling to find a beginning.

And then I realized, It was in fact, the first time that I was trying to write about an experience that I was yet to have. How does one write about experiencing a place that one hasn't yet been to? To put down in words, the experience that I want, but have not had yet, was challenging. To pen down expectations and not experiences, it always is challenging, it's like being blindfolded for a surprise birthday cake, u want it to be the flavor u love, but u don't know what u are going to get, so I decided to begin...

Not with, Why Melbourne, but with Why Travel?

It's curiosity that drives me, curiosity to know more, curiosity to break free from the bubble I live in and challenge myself with the new, the unknown, the unexpected and discover how that experience teaches me, changes me.
Travelling gives me that chance, a break from the monotony of everyday life, as I explore a new place, a chance to discover a new culture, a new cuisine and celebrate it's existence by experiencing it. A chance to meet new people, make friends and in the process looking at the world from a perspective different from my own, chance to discover the past and learn from it by visiting the relics of times gone by, a chance to challenge myself with a new adventure, a chance to enjoy the richness and beauty of nature, and let the experience relax and rejuvenate me.

Why Melbourne?

Melbourne has become a beautiful and vibrant melting pot of both the old and modern era, of people and cultures and has everything to offer that makes travelling a fulfilling experience.


The capital city of  the South eastern province,Victoria, Australia, located along Yarra river, "Melbourne" was named after William Lamb, 2nd Viscount Melbourne, the British Prime Minister at that time, and has been ranked as the most livable city since 2011. It's a well planned beautiful city, with large parks, gardens and a beautiful mix of modern infrastructure and building and and Victorian era architecture. 

Melbourne is called the 'cultural capital' of Australia and it lives up to it's title. Melbourne became a cultural melting pot, since it's Gold rush day in 1800's and the pot has just got richer with time. Melbourne has multitude of experiences to offer be it arts, music, literature, dance, theater, cuisines, sports, history, fun, nature walk. 

It's a city well connected to the rest of the world through air links, safe to move around, with range of accommodation varying from budget to splurge and a traveler's haven with the experiences it has to offer.
You can explore it on foot, with public transport, by hiring a cab, but I wish to explore Melbourne on a bike exploring the nook and corners of it's lane, checking out it's cafe's, bristo's  and gardens. Another experience that I wish to enjoy is to tour the city in a hot air balloon (http://www.visitmelbourne.com/Regions/Melbourne/Activities-and-attractions/Outdoor-activities/Ballooning-and-scenic-flights.aspx ) and watch the Melbourne skyline against the backdrop of Yarra river as the sunsets and the lights start flickering out.

If you are into arts, movies, theater and culture, then, The South side Percinct with it's countless art galleries is where you should head, also Melbourne hosts the International Art festival in October (another experience which is on my to do in Melbourne list) and the International Films festival in August

If it is history of the city, it's Gold rush days interest you, you could stop by The Melbourne Museum or The Fitzroy Gardens to see the Cook's cottage, the home of one of the first European navigator. St. Paul's and St. Patrick's cathedrals are beautiful relics of Victorian era architecture and you could also visit Montsalvat, to experience the French architecture ans food.

Melbourne, was formed by The Kulin Nation, home to five Aboriginal tribes, before European settlers settled here and hence is also home to rich Aboriginal culture and heritage. I had love to the Heritage walk in the Royal Botanical garden and discover Aboriginal traditions, painting and learn about their day to day activities.

Not just that, I had love to enjoy the rich night life, fine dining experience and shopping at offer in The Bourke Street Mall, Collins Street and Flinders quarter, take a casual walk at The St. Kilda Road and picnic around the Yarra Precinct, visit China town and experience candy and chocolate making at Koko Black (as described by a friend who recently visited Melbourne)

And it's not just Melbourne that I'd like to experience, I would love to travel to Mornington Peninsula, Phillip Island and hopefully catch a glimpse of penguins there and travel to the Great Ocean Road and and enjoy the view of the 12 apostles and experience wine making in the Yarra valley vineyards.

And of course I am looking forward to meeting and spending time again with Jacob, my Australian travel mate, an hardcore Melbournian, as we explore Melbourne together and continue our impromptu date that started as a travel rendezvous and has just continued ever since. 

With all this waiting for you on the plate, It's your time to visit Melbourne NOW and satiate your travel lust because Melbourne is a beautiful example of a city telling the beautiful story of it's own cultural evolution, as the technology revolution gradually melts distances and boundaries and the world becomes one small village, it depicts how beautifully the old and the new can blend and coexist in harmony, with the old laying the foundation of the new modern era, and the modern preserving the old and building on it's strong foundations and in the process enriching the experience that is available for a hungry traveler to savior. 

For more information and to plan your trip you could visit http://www.visitmelbourne.com/in